Monday, January 19, 2015

January 19, 2014

Dear Mom,

The past week or so has been one of my most successful in the mission field, ever. I don't know why things have changed so much for the better.
 
Even though we spend so much time contacting, on average I get a phone number or two every few weeks, and usually those phone numbers don't turn out to be anything. Last night while updating the area book with Sister Hassell I counted and realized I had gotten about ten phone numbers in the past two days. All working phone numbers as well.
 
Sister Barch got here on the 14th. We drove Sister Schofield to the Kosovo border the night before and the Sister Training Leaders picked her up (there are now two cities open to sisters in Kosovo; Prishtina and Gjakova, where the STLs are now.) The next day they drove to Albania to pick Sister Barch up from the airport there. She flew into Tirana and because we weren't sure when her Macedonian visa was going to be ready and were going to have her work in Albania until it was, but it ended up being ready then. Sister Schofield is now her trainer and Sister Hassell is my now my only companion. Thus marks the end of an 11 month and 1 week companionship with Sister Schofield.
 
We're all in the same apartment though which is fun. Originally the STLs drove back with them and did exchanges with us in Skopje for a day. I hated having so many people in my house at first but quickly got over it. I worked with Sister Boettinger, who's from Canada and was in the MTC at the same time as me. With all of our investigators split between three companionships, we only had one lesson planned for the whole day which ended up cancelling on us. In the morning for companionship study I told Sister Boettinger that so often when contacting people, I froze up and couldn't think of what to say so I wanted to spend our study hour coming up with short prepared messages. Among our other ideas, we decided to take our gospel art book with us to help us explain the first vision, etc. (Helpful since to a lot of people here, the idea that God has a body is new.) I told her that I wanted to try an idea another sister had of showing people a picture of a baptism and asking if they wanted to be baptized. We had very long hours of straight contacting that day, but it turned out being SO much more fun than I had anticipated. In the morning once we were out in Center, we decided to pray about where to go. We both thought the bridge, which was cool. Something very strange happened. During that time on the bridge, not just one but two different people came up to me and asked what I was doing. One was a man named Lypcho who was with his wife Elitsa. Never before in missionary work have I felt the Spirit so strongly directing me what to say than when I talked to Lypcho. At the end when I asked for their phone number and his wife started politely declining like usual, he thought for a minute and then gave it to me. A while later a Roma man selling towels came up to me and started having a discussion with me and he told me his beliefs about marriage and chastity. I gave him a law of chastity pamphlet, which we don't usually use on a first contact, but it went exactly with what he had been saying to me. Sister Boettinger wanted to try traditional Macedonian food, so I took her to a little restaurant in Old Town. I think the cook was the waiter's mom or something, because I got something different than what I ordered and he just asked me if it was ok to have that instead, and when the cook went outside he came back over and apologized. We went and picked up my new Macedonian ID card, then I had probably the least-frustrating hour of language study since being here. We continued contacting and talked to a man on a park bench drinking a can of Скопско (the local beer) and showed him the picture of baptism. He more or less ran away. We went in for our dinner hour before all the other sisters and Sister Boettinger made me some Albanian hot chocolate. I'll have to make you some when I get back.
 
I just thought it was so cool (a word I apparently overuse according to President Weidmann) that the previous night I had been so disheartened looking at my planner and seeing the large blocks squared away for contacting time and saying to Sister Boettinger "I'm glad you're enthusiastic" and then the next day being rewarded for acting in faith, I suppose. Maybe God is trying to teach me not to have a bad attitude. Sister Boettinger was beneficial to have on the bridge because a lot of people in that area speak Albanian.
 
The day after the STLs left we had language class with Zoki rescheduled at the last minute which totally messed up everyone's schedule. To make things easier, me and Sister Schofield got back together to cover all the lessons that were going to take place while the other two sisters went to class. One of our investigators dropped us. It was sad, but I was glad Sister Schofield could be there with me since we had found and taught him together. The lesson right after that we had to take a taxi to get to on time (I told the driver we were in a hurry and he really stepped on it-- it was fun) which was with Atesh, the Roma I had met the day before on the bridge. He committed to read the Book of Mormon. Sister Schofield said it was probably one of our top five best first lessons.
 
On Sunday we had a new record--46 people in church (including babies, missionaries, and members). Our most recent convert Prend gave a talk on prayer and invited a lot of his family to come hear him speak. I sat next to one of his family members and she said she was interested in meeting up with us. 
Sunday morning I put both a Serbian and English Book of Mormon in my bag because we had a lesson planned with a man who spoke English as well and I wanted to give him the choice of which language he wanted to read in. After church while contacting, Sister Hassell ran into a guy that had come to church and was able to fellowship him a bit more. Have I mentioned before that there are Mother Teresa quotes all over the city? We both like to stop and read them even though I've read them all before. I stopped a guy on the street who said he had heard of the church because he'd talked to Elder Krajnc before. He said he wanted all of our materials to read and I had pretty much every pamphlet to give him since I had just recently been hard-core contacting. I also gave him the Serbian Book of Mormon, which was also one Sister Boettinger had had me write my testimony in and that I had highlighted some of my favorite verses in. I started talking to an old man who introduced us to his son who was with his American friend. Can I just say that Americans are not hard to spot? He had on an Under Armour hoodie and baggy jeans and was taking a picture with his iPhone, with a non-European style hat on and a cigarette hanging out of his mouth. Turns out not only was he American but he was a soldier visiting from Camp Bondsteel in Kosovo! "Well, y'all ain't strangers or nothin'!" he said once he found out we had friends there and visited the base occasionally. He was from Indianapolis and was celebrating his 49th birthday in Skopje. I told him he didn't look that old. "It's called not havin' a lotta stress. And relyin' on that Man you're talkin' to everybody about," he pointed to a pamphlet I had in my hand about the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Sister Hassell talked a little more to him while I talked to the old man who only spoke Macedonian. He gave me his phone number and we planned to meet later that week. Once we were about to part the American guy, named Shelton by the way, said, "Well, why don't you give me one of your books?" I opened my bag to find something in English. 
"Do you have a Book of Mormon?"
"No, I have a Bible that I keep on my nightstand and like to read, but I wouldn't mind having a Book of Mormon." I handed him the Book of Mormon I had brought for our lesson. He looked at it interestedly. "I'll read this," he said. The lesson rescheduled on us anyway. It worked out perfectly. 
This morning was a holiday. Every year the Orthodox church has a tradition where the priest throws a cross into the Vardar river and a bunch of guys try to be the first one to grab it. We walked over to a bridge this morning and heard something going on over the loudspeaker. Whoever was speaking was saying something about the baptism of Christ in the River Jordan and just kind of the life and mission of Him in general. So many people were gathered but I couldn't for the life of me see over so many heads into the water where the action would happen. If only I were five inches taller. There were a bunch of medics and ambulances in and around the water, I guess in case of the worst. The voice over the loudspeaker turned into a song and the crowd pressed in excitedly, so I figured the cross had been thrown. Once it was all over and people started to leave, I watched a recording of it on Elder Prince's camera. A guy in a black shirt came out of the water with an elaborate brass-looking cross in his hand, while the other competitors took turns kissing it. Apparently whoever kisses it gets the priesthood. The winner receives a cash prize. A random onlooker was also watching the recording with us. Kinda funny. I had wondered whether the singing/speaking had been a prayer or not, and apparently it was because he ended it with an "amen." We went to eat with the Elders at Irish Pub. Apparently while they were watching the cross being thrown an American baptist was trying to get into an argument with them. Zoki was there too, and since he used to be some type of missionary for the Baptist church in Germany (I think) he gave the elders pointers on how to work with Baptists. I forgot to mention that Zoki took a trip to Holland a few weeks ago and while there did baptisms for the dead in the temple there. He loved it. At lunch Elder Krajnc told me that back when he used to be Catholic, he wasn't allowed to advance in the priesthood because there were a couple of songs he didn't want to memorize. I told him I am glad that this church accepts Catholic rejects.
 
And actually it turns out that the thing about knives being approved was a rumor.
 
Anyway, I guess what I'm trying to say here is, if you ever think God isn't real, you're wrong. I feel so blessed that he called me as a missionary here in Macedonia. One night while reading in the New Testament I came across some verses that talk about Macedonia and I told Sister Hassell, "Likening the scriptures has never been more real." Here are the specific ones I was talking about:
2 Corinthians 7: 5-6, "For, when we were come into Macedonia, our flesh had no rest, but we were troubled on every side; without were fightings, within were fears. Nevertheless God, that comforteth those that are cast down, comforted us by the coming of Titus." (Replace the word Titus with "new missionaries" or "STLs" or "new investigaors" or "new potentials" or "new hope" or "rewarded faith" or "answers to prayers" or "His Spirit" or "His love".)
2 Corinthians 8: 1-5, "Moreover, brethren, we do you to wit of the grace of God bestowed on the churches of Macedonia; How that in a great trial of affliction the abundance of their joy and their deep poverty abounded unto the riches of their liberality. For to their power, I bear record, yea, and beyond their power they were willing of themselves; Praying us with much entreaty that we would receive the gift, and take upon us the fellowship of the ministering to the saints. And this they did, not as we hoped, but first gave their own selves to the Lord, and unto us by the will of God."



 
I love you. Heavenly Father loves you.
Sister Riddle

Monday, January 12, 2015

January 12, 2015

Dear Mom,

So the President of European missions has approved and encouraged all missionaries living in an area where Muslim terrorist groups exist to carry knives.  As far as I know it isn't a real danger here in Skopje, it's just a precaution. 

Sister Schofield's mom knew somebody who has relatives here in Macedonia so she sent us a personal letter and pictures to deliver to them and try and introduce them to the gospel. We had Zoki translate the letter and then one night got in a taxi and had him take us to the address. The man and his wife were at home "preparing for Christmas" and invited us in and did a really good job of making it not awkward. They were so, so nice and later their son with his wife and daughter came by. They spoke a small amount of English but we understood them just fine in Macedonian. They said they had traveled to Portland many years before to visit family there, but were unaware of the existence of any relatives in Utah. We took pictures with them and made plans to come and see them again later in the month when they're done vacationing for the holidays. What a cool experience.

On Macedonian pre-Christmas Eve, people light a lot of fires and play really loud music and drink. We asked the guy with the relatives in Utah if he knew the reason for the fires, and he was really quiet and thinking for a bit and then said, "There is a reason, I just don't know it." I guess it's kind of like how I don't know why we have Christmas trees. It's also tradition here to hide a 1-denar coin in a big piece of bread, to cut it four ways on Christmas Eve, and whoever gets the coin gets good luck for the rest of the year. We bought one of said bread loaves at a bakery and did that in our apartment, but since there are only three of us none of us ended up with the coin.

We went to the army base in Kosovo again after Zone Training this week. We prepared a lesson about Heavenly Father's balance of justice and mercy. Only two soldiers came, but I think it went well. 

One morning when we were leaving the apartment I said a prayer asking the Lord to bless us with at least one new investigator. We went to Lucy's house to go and check on her and while waiting outside a guy named Risto passed who we talked to for a while and then ended up having a lesson at Irish Pub with him. Occurrences like that here are so rare. At one point Sister Hassell told him that her first name was Aspen and he said, "Aspen is the name of the town in Dumb and Dumber." 

Sister Hassell is really good about making specific plans for things, which makes us more effective, and for immediately saying prayers of gratitude when we receive blessings. I'm really glad I get the opportunity to work with her.

I don't remember if I mentioned that the Muslim taxi driver Mervan whose family we visited told us that the only reason they had us over was because we were Americans who had helped Kosovo (where they're from) in the war. They said they would do anything to help us but that they weren't interested in our religion.

I am so grateful for the Atonement and that we have a loving Savior who only wants us to do better so that we can return to live with Him and experience happiness to the depth that we are able. I hear so many missionaries express a fear of having not done their best. I feel the same but I know that as we sincerely try and seek our Father in Heaven's help every day in kneeling prayer, that He will help us and guide us. Christ's grace is sufficient for us all. He wants us to use His Atonement. He wants us to repent. He loves us. He loves you. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Love, 
Sister Riddle

Monday, January 5, 2015

January 5, 2015

Hey Mom,

So the new missionaries told me that I neglected to mention in my letters home that President Weidmann changed President Ford's plan for Macedonia when he took over. He wants to keep all of the missionaries in Skopje and not open up another city so that we can strengthen the branch here. Nine, soon to be more, missionaries in one city is unheard of in our mission. I think the maximum in any one city is six missionaries, which is what we were before the newbies came.

So we've been meeting with Zdravka and have her on baptismal date for the end of this month. She's so accepting of everything and practically invites and commits herself in every lesson. She's quite a perfectionist. 

President Weidmann came to Macedonia last week for Branch Conference and spoke to Blagoy about his problem getting baptized. He helped him devise a plan which will hopefully enable him to get baptized soon- just as soon as he finds a new apartment to move into.

Blagoy actually came today to this sports center we were at, ice skating, because we planned to play ping pong with him after. But then we found out everything but the ice rink was closed and so he left. He's such a nice old guy. He brought a thermos filled with tea for all of us.

Last time we had a lesson with Deon was New Year's Eve, I believe, and we talked to him about goals and resolutions. I shared with him an idea from Elder Bednar's talks--that any idea that inspires you to good is from God and of the Holy Ghost. He accepted that. So many people here just have a problem with accepting this church as the one and only true church because they see good elsewhere. I totally get what they're saying and even agree. As Elder Krajnc put it, other churches may be good, but if Jesus Christ had a church that He Himself organized, wouldn't you want to join that one? Deon says I don't accept anything other than "the Mormon church" and says I need to open my mind more. Which isn't true, but I can see his point considering he gave me something to read over two months ago that I still haven't touched. I would have read it by now had it been in English, though. I guess from his viewpoint, I'm not doing his homework and he isn't doing any of mine either. I would make for a horrible investigator. I'm hoping that once I finally get around to reading that article it'll show respect for his beliefs and he'll come around as well. 

Well, that's all I can think of that happened this week.
Love you,
Sister Riddle

Sunday, January 4, 2015

January 1, 2015

Hey Mom,
 
On Christmas Eve we had FHE at the Nelson's and I brought guacamole. Everyone kept commenting on and asking about the "salad with avocado". 

I don't remember if it was that night or another that we, the sisters, prepared the message. We watched The Coat which is on lds.org and then passed around a Macedonian Bible and took turns each reading a verse from the story of Christ's birth in Luke. I could really feel the Spirit there that night and we had a ton of people so it was awesome. 

Last night for New Year's Sister Schofield kept telling me how loud the fireworks were going to be because she remembered from last year and told me I should go take a nap before they started. (We weren't allowed out after 4pm as a safety precaution.) She was like, "I know you're a deep sleeper but you're not going to be able to sleep through all of that." In the morning when I told her I'd slept like a rock she just shook her head and told me I was ridiculous. 

We have been caroling and still giving out He is the Gift cards for contacting because it still isn't Christmas here for another week. Sister Hassell, being the banjo-playing vegetarian from Oregon that she is, has been able to switch to guitar and help provide music to our less-than-talented singing. Elder Gierisch was her secret santa for Christmas and wanted to buy her a goat's head from a butcher, but in the morning he found out that they weren't sold until noon. Apparently they only cost 60 denar, but I'm glad he didn't get her one because it would've made me feel a bit sad.

I can't remember what else has happened that I can quickly type to you. New investigators, 2 for sure coming to church. So nice to have dedicated people to teach!!! One named Lucy who owns her own chinese cafe, we had a lesson there one night. she's Buddhist but has described feeling the Spirit when she came to church. She just doesn't know what it is yet.  Thru her we met Zdravka, an old woman who we're teaching for the second time tonight.

It is SO COLD in Skopje right now. I'm wearing sweats under my skirt and a hoodie under my coat, plus handwarmers and wool socks, thermal garments, etc, and it still isn't doing the trick! The only trick would be to stay inside, which of course we cant do. We've been keeping the heater on at night the past few days. Snow everywhere which we got for the first time I want to say 3? 4? days ago, then it snowed again lightly. So we're walking on ice everywhere.

Feel like we're making some headway with Deon, one of our investigators, though that may be just a feeling.

Hope you all had a merry Christmas and were able to remember and feel it's true meaning.

"To love another person is to see the face of God." 
-Victor Hugo

Love,
Sister Riddle

                       Photo taken from hotel window where church is held. (Skopje, Macedonia)