Tuesday, December 16, 2014

December 15, 2014

Hi Mom,

Today was one of the best P-days ever. We finally went to see the castle here in Skopje. I've never walked around on it in all my time here. I looked it up and apparently it was built in the year 500?? Guess people back then knew how to build. It has been so, so foggy these past few days in the city but the view from up top was still pretty decent. Two stray dogs followed us around, which is pretty normal, and didn't part until we crossed the river later that day. Around the base of the castle were two tiny doors which Sister Hassell pointed out. I told her they led to Narnia and with that she disappeared behind them and I didn't see her for another twenty minutes (which for her I'm sure was about six months.) The castle was beautiful and artful up close and I appreciated all the arches, heavy doors and lookout points, and the slope of the castle in general, which definitely isn't the style in architecture today. So impressive was how sturdy it was and the fact that it's built out of a bunch of stones. I said to Elder Prince that tall buildings like that must have been the bomb for people who weren't used to being in planes or seeing pictures or movies from aerial views. Kind of strange for me to see a city I thought I knew so well from another vantage point, so I can't imagine how they must have felt. 

Then on our way down we stopped at the mosque that I've been to before, only last time we got there right when it opened so it was empty. At the mosque it's nametags off to show respect, then shoes off before entering or even placing your feet on the rug outside as a rule, and once inside this time a worker asked me to cover my hair and pointed to a rack full of headcoverings. He said it very respectfully. Another worker informed us that the call to prayer would be in about two minutes and had us stand to the side. I had never seen the actual prayer before so I was excited. The song came on as usual in Arabic and I realized that a man standing to the side was singing it into a microphone. People, all men, kept coming in late and knelt at the front of the room. There were about thirty of them, including the workers. The prayer lasted about fifteen minutes and was silent. I know that it's a memorized prayer though, and together they all knelt, bowed, moved their heads, and did everything else in unison. One guy who came in the latest I noticed had wet arms and legs, and once we went back outside I saw a huge fountain with soap around it that I guess they use to wash before entering to pray. Which is pretty notable considering how cold it is right now. The one worker who had told us about the call to prayer wanted to take a picture with all of us once we were outside. We stood around and talked to him about Islam for a few minutes and I heard him say, "What religion teaches people to kill? That is not a religion. A life is not ours to take. I see this on the tv, people who say they are Muslim and I think it's horrible. I don't know what it is." He told us he owned a restaurant in Tetovo and if we ever came he'd give us a free coffee. He told us to add him on Facebook and then we headed back out of Old Town; cobblestone and cigarette butts everywhere, and what Elder Gierisch calls "Balkan Spanish" music playing. 

All of the missionaries went over to the Swinefords on Sunday to watch the Christmas devotional and they gave us each a bag of American candy as an early present to all of us. Sweet! 

Haha, that's funny what you said about the Schofields giving you that ornament because in our apartment right now we have a little Christmas tree that includes some tiny lights that Sister Hassell got at the MTC and a bunch of Book of Mormon ornaments. I looked at it one day and said to Sister Schofield, "Ugh. We are such sister missionaries."

We have a big "He is the Gift" sign in Macedonian that we take contacting now, which is great! It makes us look so much more professional. But it also makes us look a lot more like Jehovah's Witnesses because they always have little setups like that. The first night we had it, I talked to a woman for a long time and tried to get her to come to church. She said she didn't want to until she was sure we weren't a cult. "You guys don't, like, do sacrifices and stuff like that?" I told her no but she didn't seem to believe me.

 Sister Schofield has had fun wrapping Book of Mormons at this time of year. She's doing a 12 days of Christmas thing for all of our elders, which is really nice of her, and we're taking out our portable DVD player when we go contacting to show people the He is the Gift video. President Weidmann says he'll get more cards to us, and we're planning a few more cool things for the season. Among the missionaries we're all doing a secret gift exchange. It's lots of fun. 

Psalms 31:1-3, "In thee, O Lord, do I put my trust; let me never be ashamed: deliver me in thy righteousness. Bow down thine ear to me; deliver me speedily: be thou my strong rock, for an house of defence to save me. For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name’s sake lead me, and guide me."

Love,
Sister Riddle

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

December 8, 2014

Dear Mom,
 
The new missionaries are here!!!! I was so excited going to pick them up from the airport on Wednesday and was the first to be waiting at the arrival gate. President and Sister Weidmann were there too, and they told us that Elder Prince and Krajnc would be training, along with me. I hadn't known beforehand that one of us would be the official trainer, I just figured me and Sister Schofield would both do it together. Elder Prince spotted them first, and then I went around to give Sister Hassell a hug. I remember her saying, "Is this really happening?" And another one of the first things she said to me as we were waiting for the APs at the curb outside was, "I read your blog." Apparently Elder Rigby's dad found it and mailed a bunch of my letters to him via DearElder while he was in the MTC, which Elder Rigby then passed on to the others once he was done reading them. He said to me, "I felt a little invasive reading them because they all start out, 'Hi Mom'. But they were so cool and I got to find out about everything and it kept me totally pumped to come in-field." I thought it was pretty cool too, that they read them. Unexpected. He served in Payson for I think a month while they got his visa ready.
 
It's so nice having new people. I feed off of their excitement and hope. It's nice knowing enough that I'm able to help them.

I forgot to mention that President Weidmann made an exception for Macedonia to the no-teaching-opposite sex rule. Woohoo! We can teach men again. And now that we're a threesome with Sister Hassell we don't have to bother our members so much to come to a lesson (not in public) when it's with a man. Like Blagoy, for example. For most of my mission I have only contacted men because I didn't want another Benjamin to happen. That backfired the other night when a woman asked me out. So now I'm contacting men again.
 
You know the He is the Gift video I sent you last time? So I have read in my friends' emails that in their missions around the world they are all doing these pass-along cards with the website to the video. President Weidmann mentioned it in a letter to us and I assumed that as with everything else it wouldn't apply to Macedonia. But then an amazing thing happened!! We asked Zoki to translate the card into Macedonian and when President came down with the new missionaries he gave us all cards in Macedonian! So awesome! The most professional-looking ones we have ever had. And it's so great and easy because everyone can connect with Christmas and it segways so easily into talking about the Savior. Plus watching a 2 minute video at home is a much easier commitment that coming to church or meeting with us. Call it a Christmas miracle. Now I just need to convince President Weidmann to send us more because we don't have nearly enough to last until January 7, which is when they celebrate it here. Elder Prince even worked on making the video in Macedonian and we're going to see if it can be played from the big tv screen in the center of Skopje. That would be so amazing. Fingers crossed!

The past couple of days have been super busy with getting the new missionaries settled and all the legal stuff and everything. We had training with President Weidmann for the first two days and went up to Mount Vodno and read Macedonia's dedicatory prayer for the first time ever. We had Zone Training in Kosovo on Saturday and today for p-day we all went bowling. 
 
Alma 39:15, "And now, my son, I would say somewhat unto you concerning the coming of Christ. Behold, I say unto you, that it is he that surely shall come to take away the sins of the world; yea, he cometh to declare glad tidings of salvation unto his people."
 
Merry Christmas and I love you,
Sister Riddle

 
 

Monday, December 1, 2014

December 1, 2014

Hey Mom,

So there's not really anything exciting that happened this week but I'll tell you about the new pass-along cards that we designed. The front has the church's full name with a picture of Jesus on it (inspired from the Yarn's cards) with the question, "Does God speak to His children today?" below that. (I came up with the question. Yay me.) On the back it has our phone number with some church websites on it, plus an explanation of what happens at church and the location. People always ask us what we do at church so we figured we'd just put it on there. We all think the cards are an improvement from last time. The cards used to have a picture of the first vision on the front and the question, "Do I ever ask myself how to become a better person?" on the back. We hoped that would jog people's interest but it didn't really. It's too soon to tell the efficacy of the new ones but I'll let you know.

The day after Thanksgiving when the elders got back from Tirana I made them all General Tso's chicken and rice, which I've been waiting for a special occasion to make since I got here. I gave them some to give to Elmaz along with some banana bread.

Anyway, I love you, and I miss you a lot. in 24 days I can talk to you on Skype. Merry Christmas everybody.
Sister Riddle



What's that? Oh, just the best temple in the world.

Sunday, November 30, 2014

November 24, 2014

Hey Mom,

So we planned to go to Albania for another mission conference/Thanksgiving celebration this week but Sister Schofield has the flu so we she might not be well enough to make the trip. She sure does get sick a lot. We're taking her to the doctor today.

We found another family!!! We started talking to this taxi driver named Mervan who speaks a bit of English and he said that even though he was Muslim he liked talking to other people about their religious beliefs. We met up with his wife and went to their home one day last week. His mother and 6-year-old daughter were also there for the lesson. Unfortunately Sister Schofield gave most of the lesson because once their little girl came in she showed me her toys, books, and videos on their iPad and I was pretty much no help during the lesson. Sister Schofield said it was ok though because she thought it was important that we showed we cared about them and not just converting them. The little girl was so cute, she only speaks Albanian and a little bit of English and almost everything I said to her she responded, "Yeah." I do the same thing in Macedonian when I don't understand. 

Anyway, not much new to report on other than the new missionaries get here next Wednesday December 3rd. 

Happy Thanksgiving.
Love,
Sister Riddle

 

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

November 17, 2014

Hey Mom,
 
So this week we went to Albania again for mission conference. We got there the night before and went out with some of the elders for dinner. It's so nice to be with different people. We slept in Tirana with the sisters there and then drove to Durres the next day since there's a chapel there. The best speaker wasn't the main one. We slept in Tirana again and drove back to Skopje the next day. 

I finished reading Jesus the Christ. A fantastic way to spend 800 pages. I'm happy though because now I can read more scriptures during personal study.

Language classes are going well. The other day I translated the phrase "too gay to function" into Macedonian and Elder Krajnc gave me a man point. I didn't even know he knew what those were or how to give them. He's been holding out on me. 

By the way, apparently it's never too early for the opposition to start working against us. Remember how I said I wasn't worried about there being anything anti-mormon online? Yeah I was wrong. Online and on tv. Apparently there was an hour special on the other night about how we're here illegally. Which is pretty rich considering the church is the most rigorous rule-following organization ever. I can personally testify and reassure anyone who wants to know that through the amount of things I have signed, pictures I have taken, trips to visit our lawyer, Elena, or to go to the ministry building, that I know that we are here 100% legally. If we didn't care about the law we would be tracting and have a better meeting place, probably. 

On a personal note, I don't know how anyone gets by in life without prayer. This morning I didn't have time to pray and I feel like I'm going to die. Be grateful for prayer and that Heavenly Father not only is willing to communicate with us but has commanded us to pray. 
 
"Choose to converse with your Father in Heaven often. Make time every day to share your thoughts and feelings with Him. Tell Him everything that concerns you. He is interested in the most important as well as the most mundane facets of your life. Share with Him your full range of feelings and experiences.
Because He respects your agency, Father in Heaven will never force you to pray to Him. But as you exercise that agency and include Him in every aspect of your daily life, your heart will begin to fill with peace, buoyant peace. That peace will focus an eternal light on your struggles. It will help you to manage those challenges from an eternal perspective.
Parents, help safeguard your children by arming them morning and night with the power of family prayer. Children are bombarded every day with the evils of lust, greed, pride, and a host of other sinful behaviors. Protect your children from daily worldly influences by fortifying them with the powerful blessings that result from family prayer. Family prayer should be a nonnegotiable priority in your daily life." -Elder Richard G. Scott
Love you all so much,
Sister Riddle

Sunday, November 16, 2014

November 10, 2014

Hey Mom,
 
So, usually every week we do service by picking up trash in Skopje. Did you know it's the most polluted city in Europe? Disgusting. 3rd most polluted city in the world. Zoki our language teacher told us that. This week we had all of our language classes by his work and then afterwards decided to do our contacting down there instead of at our few usual places. It was such a nice change. A lot more people talked to us there. 

The only truly Macedonian materials we have are the Gospel Fundamentals book and some Joseph Smith pamphlets, which aren't very helpful when contacting. Everything else we use is in Serbian. For the past several months we've been using some self-made passalong cards. President Ford had it approved for a one-time printing of I think 5,000 denar worth. But we're running out and thus designing new ones in the hope that President Weidmann will be sympathetic to our cause and approve more to be printed. Anyway, since I still wanted to pass out things in Macedonian and we were short on cards, I had the idea to write out parts of my testimony on these card-sized pictures of Jesus that the Yarns gave me right before I came out on my mission (about a year ago!) I also wrote out the information for where to come for church and our phone number on them. So far they've gotten a great response because people are more willing to hold onto a picture of Christ than our card, which does have a picture of the first vision on it, but people don't always recognize that. I gave one of them to a couple that was intermittently staring at us and making out one night while contacting. They were from Czech Republic and said they were followers of Christ and in turn gave me a couple booklets about their beliefs. I thought that was really nice of them. 

Did I tell you that in Macedonia you can buy actual chestnuts roasted over an open fire? Well, more like open grill, but still. I haven't tried any yet. They were here when I first arrived in Skopje, which is a reminder of just how much time has passed. 


Love you,
Sister Riddle

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

November 2, 2014

Hey Mom,
So not much really happened this week worth talking about but I figured I'd share this video with you.


Love you all. Keep going on.
Sister Riddle